Júlia Visconti

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
thetragicallynerdy
compassionatereminders

Learn to articulate how you're feeling without accusing anyone of having bad intentions. You can say "I'm afraid of being alone" without saying "you're just going to leave me like everyone else." You can say "I need some reassurance" without saying "you probably don't love me anymore." You can say "I'm afraid I've hurt your feelings and I'd like to talk it through" without saying "you don't even like me anymore." You can say "I want to spend more time with you" without saying "you've gotten tired of me." You can say "I feel misunderstood" without saying "you always judge me." Try not to let your emotions get the best of you. Have a conversation focused on finding solutions instead of escalating the conflict.

doublesdare

Anonymous asked:

Did the fans in Brazil ever get their refunds for Loverfest? I remember them trying to reach out to Taylor months after it was canceled saying they still hadn't received anything but I haven't seen anything since

doublesdare answered:

i actually have no idea and totally forgot ab that until u mentioned it!! anyone know how the brazilian loverfest tickets were resolved?

aaarondessner

they never got the money back and i heard that not even taylor's team got their money back as well. fans who bought lover fest tickets did have an exclusive pre-sale for the eras tour but it all went down hill when the production company made a huge mistake and instead of opening the sale to those who had tickets they opened to the general public so idk exactly how many fans that got loverfest tickets were able to buy eras tour tickets.

juliavisconti13

Hi! We didn’t get refunds, but they kept our credit (after they said it would expire several times) and gave us an exclusive pre-sale for the first dates announcements (18, 25, 26th), and people who still had credits could use them! I used what I had left , thank God

And they actually did only open for those of us who had the lovers tickets, there was no mistake . And it’s the only reason many of us got tickets at all, it’s been a stressful couple of weeks. It’s just that the presale did not guarantee you would get tickets, so some lover fest fans couldn’t get them that day

youllalwaysfindyourwaybackhome
cottagecore-raccoon

Your first kiss, was it…

Like how they describe it in books (magical, fireworks, other cliches)

It was pleasant

Honestly disappointing

Weird because I wasn’t attracted to who I was kissing

I was too busy being anxious about doing it right now truly notice

It just kind of happened? I dunno

Haven’t kissed anyone yet ✌️

Other (please tell me, I’m so curious)

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he literally frenched my cheek because I was nervous and moved when he went it and he only realized it afterwards it was a mess he still went it for a second and that time got my mouth it was ok for a first kiss
singlethread
hollowboobtheory

idk when we decided that explaining yourself shouldn't be part of an apology but like. if someone was a dick to me and apologizes but I still don't understand why they did it I'm not gonna feel any better

hollowboobtheory

"Sorry for hurting your feelings earlier. I was trying to say x, but I guess it came across wrong. I don't think you're stupid."

or

"Sorry I snapped at you. I didn't get enough sleep last night so my patience is a little low today."

is a better apology than

"I want you to know that I am sorry that my actions offended you. I take full accountability for my actions and I am listening and learning. I hear you."

this !!!!